INFJ

Who you are

You pick up the emotion under the words more than the words themselves. You tend to see where people and situations are heading before it's obvious, which makes your advice land deep, though explaining how you knew is another matter.

Where you're strong

• ·Reads people accurately
• ·Builds deep bonds
• ·Sees a long way ahead

At work

You often notice tension between two coworkers weeks before it turns into an open argument. Work that helps a real person makes sense to you, and dull tasks go faster when you can see who they serve. You prefer to prepare alone and present something finished. Your thinking comes across best in a written proposal, where you have time to get the wording right.

With people

You choose a few people deeply over many people lightly. Once you open up, you're genuinely involved in their life.

In love

You often sense early whether a person could matter to you. Once you do, you want to know their history, their fears, and what they hope for. That depth can feel like a lot on a third date. If someone keeps things light for too long, you may quietly lose interest and pull away.

Under stress

You wear out fast in a week of nonstop errands and small decisions. Habits you usually avoid creep in, like snacking all evening or leaving the dishes for days. A long walk alone, somewhere green and quiet, settles your thoughts.

Watch out for

Carrying everyone's feelings drains you alone. Distance is allowed, and sometimes necessary.